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19th November 2017 

Frequently Asked Questions



Is counselling right for you? Further information to help you decide:

I have been counselling people for more than 10 years and am an accredited member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. In the following section, some of the questions that clients frequently asked are answered, but I will always be pleased to supply further information.

How do I choose the right counsellor or psychotherapist and what's the right approach to search for?

The research suggests that the way you relate to your counsellor or psychotherapist is the key factor when looking at successful outcomes. There are many different theoretical approaches and from these I blend a combination of the Psychodynamic and Humanist. However, the rapport we establish and the sense of good potential in our initial session, will be central. When you meet me or any other therapist for an introductory session, you will see if there is a comfortable feeling of being on the same wavelength. Do you feel listened to and do you feel understood? If I or any other therapist picks up on your cues and gets the point when you explain something, then these are signs that the therapy will be successful.

How does counselling or psychotherapy work?

The process can lead to a greater understanding of your problems and this in turn can lead to a new awareness and help you to make changes in your life. Together, we aim for a new outlook, where you feel that your difficulties have been addressed.

Can I arrange sessions after work?

Yes, subject to availability, I offer sessions in the evenings.

What should I do in the sessions?

I shall work with you but not tell you what to do. My knowledge of the conscious and the unconscious and how this affects our relationships, will help us to make sense of your problems. I will offer you new ways of seeing yourself and how you interact with others.

Trust your instinct that you need someone to talk to and that you need to be listened to. You may have had so much advice that it’s hard to ‘hear yourself think’. You may just feel that you need a chance to talk about your worries. Talk freely about anything that has been a cause for concern or that you have strong feelings about.

What does it cost?

I charge 50 for an individual introductory session, 60 for a couples session (concessions negotiable). Thereafter sessions costs are individuals from 65, couples 75, discretionary rates available.

Is there homework?

Sometimes I may suggest that you observe interactions that we have talked about, e.g. how relationship patterns may repeat. Occasionally you might practice a new strategy that we have talked about, e.g. a response when you feel you are being bullied.

How long are sessions?

Fifty-five minutes.

Do you charge for missed sessions?

No,only if you receive a negotiated concession rate.

Is it confidential?

Yes. The only limitation is when there exists a risk of serious harm to someone. Other than that, therapy is a place where you can talk about private thoughts or thoughts that seem crazy to you. As you come to trust me over time, I will give you a calm setting where you can talk about and share your worries.

Is short or long term therapy right for me?

Short term therapy focuses upon recent issues or your feeling that you are not behaving or feeling as you normally do e.g. coping with a recent loss, shock or change. Highlighting and managing sources of stress, or a ‘blind spot’ in a relationship, may be things which bring people for short term therapy. Usually, there is a focus agreed upon from the beginning and this provides a framework for the following sessions.

For issues which have a longer history such as repeating patterns of behaviour in relationships, a difficult and traumatic childhood, or an established compulsive behaviour, therapy will take more time. This is partly because trust between a therapist and client(s) is not instant. It is also partly because our working relationship will need to be strong enough to become a healing resource, in itself.

Will I be told what to do?

No. While this can be what you would like to get from coming for therapy, it generally doesn’t work when other people advise you what to do or make decisions for you. Although I will not tell you what to do, I will help you to think problems through.

How often do sessions take place?

Once weekly.

Can I ask my GP to refer me for sessions?

You may be able to; though this will usually be for short-term therapy (8-12 sessions). It is worth talking it over with your GP. They often have a particular counsellor attached to their practice, but you could request counselling that uses a method of your choice.

Is there any funding available for counselling that I might be able to apply for?

Yes, funding for 8-12 counselling sessions may be offered to you by an Employment Assistance Programme, a Healthcare organisation, or a Workplace Wellbeing company and I am registered with WSM (Wellbeing Solutions Management ). Although the target may be to help you continue in your job or to get back to working, you may well find that you talk about a wide range of issues from the personal, financial or physical, to the politics of the office. Your anxieties will lead us to the sources of your depression or dissatisfaction. There are a wide range of reasons why people come to therapy, and it is you yourself that knows, when you have reached the point of asking for help.

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